Here are a couple of books I heard about that will help you sort out your dating, relationship and life struggles:
- Get Unstuck! The Simple Guide to Restart Your Life, by John Seeley.
- How To Avoid Marrying a Jerk, by John VanEpp, who says that the third month of a relationship is very revealing, that basically how your partner is behaving then is how they’re really going to behave, period.Â In other words, if you really like someone and are considering a lifetime relationship with them, don’t make any permanent decisions until you’ve gotten through month 3 and base your decision on how things go in that month.
A little piece of info from these authors: we usually date people who remind us of what we defined as love when we were ages zero to eight.Â If you want to improve your dating life, figure out what was going wrong in your early childhood, love-wise, heal yourself, and re-think what you want from love.